Thursday, 16 September 2021

Ways to Meet New People Easily

Written by  The Dubrovnik Times Apr 13, 2021

Not all of us can easily start communicating with a stranger or unfamiliar person. We feel embarrassed, we cannot find a topic for conversation, we are nervous and lower our eyes to the floor. In general, this is completely normal, because not everyone is a born extrovert. However, stiffness and uncertainty are capable of spoiling our lives.

Today we want to talk about the ways to make new acquaintances easily, overcome your own fears and feel more confident. Believe us, everything is not as difficult as it seems.

Five tips on communication with new people

1. Be the first one to act

Certainly, sometimes taking the first step is the hardest part. But it is by taking the initiative that you become, in a sense, the master of the situation. This adds confidence and helps you conduct further conversation in a more comfortable way.

It is easy to take initiative on the Internet - this is a fact. You shall agree that writing "Hello!" in the chat is super easy. However, approaching a person on the street and greeting them is more difficult. Therefore, if you are shy and feel insecure, start communicating on the Internet.

2. Don't try to read the other person's thoughts

While communicating, many of us try to guess what the other person is thinking about, whether they are interested in the topic raised, whether they want to communicate with us at all. These thoughts only distract us and inhibit the development of relationships. Be simple, open and honest during the conversation. And the interlocutor will probably behave the same way. Leave the attempts to read thoughts and emotions to the experts in physiognomy.

3. Smile

A smile is the best adornment of a person. It shows that you are kind to the other person, and they will be more friendly to you. Accordingly, communication is much easier and more comfortable for both of you.

By the way, it is worth smiling not only during live communication, but even when talking on the phone. Notice how your intonation changes when you say the same phrase with and without a smile on your face. Believe it or not, your interlocutor will also feel the difference. Of course, you don't have to smile all the time. But during a greeting or when discussing a topic of interest to you - you surely should!

4. Choose good conversation topics

Sometimes a conversation with a stranger can turn into a real run through a minefield. One wrong word or topic raised, and the conversation can go completely wrong. Therefore, we recommend that you think in advance what you would like to talk about with the interlocutor. You should not touch upon issues of politics, religion and other topics that can provoke a conflict or hurt someone's feelings. Start with something neutral - interests, movies, music, pets, and so on. Save serious and difficult conversations for the future.

5. Practice socializing with new people

It is impossible to learn to easily meet and communicate confidently with strangers. It takes time and practice. Moreover, it is not necessary to go ahead. You can start small - just try to talk more with others. It's okay to ask a passer-by for directions, ask for advice at a store, or have a few words with a barista while you wait for your coffee. These are the little things, but these are the little things that make up your communication experience. You will be very surprised when you notice how much easier it will become to make new acquaintances after such a mini-practice.

Best places to meet and overcome your fears

If offline dating is not for you, feel free to go online. Here you have a lot of opportunities to get acquainted, communicate, find new friends and even your love. Fortunately, there are many websites to do this - 

1. Dating websites and applications

The advantage of such resources is that the audience is very sociable. After all, other people have the same goals as you - to find new acquaintances and their love. This means that the chances of being ignored are minimal. By the way, it is not necessary to consider such websites exactly as the place to find a partner. Here you can just chat on interesting topics.

2. Social networks and messengers

Millions of people around the world use Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Telegram, Viber, and other platforms. Each of the websites allows you to meet an unlimited number of people not only from your city, but also from anywhere in the world. Moreover, now it is not even necessary to thoroughly know the language of the interlocutor. Thousands of people meet and communicate using an online translator.

3. Online video chats

This is an excellent option for those who do not want to register on dating websites, fill out a profile and spend their own time looking for interesting people. Video chats like CooMeet сhat automatically connect you with random users, allowing you to chat on almost any topic.

Today there are anonymous video chats to every taste: fairly simple ones without additional functions, and more advanced ones with flexible settings for searching for interlocutors by gender, age, geolocation and interests. Just choose what you like best.

Gain experience and meeting new people will leave only pleasant impressions

You can read dozens of books on communicating with other people, study hundreds of articles and publications. But this is all just theory. It's definitely helpful. However, real practice is much more important. Try to understand that there are people around you like yourself. Many of them also find it difficult to communicate with strangers. They also feel embarrassed and insecure. So why not take the initiative and start practicing?

Don't neglect dating websites and video chats. These are wonderful venues that offer great prospects. Forget about the silly stereotype that they are for the desperate people. They are used by tens and hundreds of millions of people all over the world. Among them there are even Hollywood stars of the first magnitude - Ben Affleck, Katy Perry, Zac Efron, Leonardo DiCaprio and others. Use the possibilities of the modern Internet to the maximum, communicate with new people and find your love on the endless expanses of the Web. It's that simple!


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