When Your Pets Steal Your Bed and Your Wife Starts a Fashion Empire: A Guide to Surviving Family Life (Furry and Otherwise)
"Hey, Mark, where do you sleep?" came the question in our family Viber group after I sent a photo of our occupied bed. You see, as soon as I get up for a glass of water or a quick trip to the bathroom, one or even both of our dogs take over my spot. When I return, they pretend to be in a deep sleep, leaving me to grab a blanket and relocate to the couch.
I’ve lost count of how many times I’ve answered the question, “Why do you let the dogs on the bed?” My response remains the same: "The more I get to know people, the more I love animals."
With the end of the Indian summer and the arrival of chilly northern winds forcing us to dig out warmer clothes, our "displaced family members"—our cats—started returning home. During summer, they scatter to other locations, and while I can’t say for sure if it’s the allure of better food, I can confidently vouch that my vegetarian wife doesn’t skimp on providing them with meat-based meals. Now that they’re back, they’ve reclaimed their cushions and, oddly enough, a wooden serving tray.
One cat in particular decided it was the perfect bed, so we’ve resigned ourselves to its new purpose, moving it to the top of the wardrobe to keep it out of the way. It’s no longer usable for serving drinks, but it’s certainly loved.
With colder days here, we’ve entered the “where are the sweaters?” phase of the season. Down here in the south, a seasonal shift can happen in a matter of hours, not days. In tandem, our family has launched the semi-annual operation of “Is anyone going to Zagreb? Is anyone coming back to Dubrovnik?” My wife and her sisters have perfected the art of swapping wardrobes: one outgrows something, another gets bored with her own, and a third ends up with an item that doesn’t fit. Their system is so efficient it could rival professional courier services.
In fact, my wife has taken this idea a step further by creating a "take or leave" corner at her salon. Clients can bring clothes and items they no longer need or pick up something that catches their eye. The concept works flawlessly.
This got me thinking about our consumer-driven world, where it’s nearly impossible to resist the flood of offers for cheap, often unnecessary items, particularly clothing. The fashion industry, second only to oil in terms of pollution, is a staggering contributor to environmental damage. Rapid trend cycles, low-cost labor, and cheap prices have created a fast-fashion epidemic with no end in sight. While charity sales and clothing swaps are noble efforts, they barely make a dent in the sea of discarded garments piling up every day.
The mantra "Think globally, act locally" feels more relevant than ever in a world drowning in overconsumption and ecological crises. It’s easy to feel powerless against issues like climate change, pollution, and deforestation, but meaningful change begins in the smallest corners of our lives. It starts when we choose to mend an old sweater instead of buying a new one, or when we swap clothes with friends rather than giving in to the lure of fast fashion. It even starts with repurposing a serving tray for a cat bed, showing that creativity and sustainability can breathe new life into objects.
These seemingly trivial decisions create ripples, encouraging others to reevaluate their habits. We’re constantly inundated with online marketplaces pushing ridiculously cheap goods—yes, I’m looking at you, Temu. By adopting a “take or leave” mindset—whether through spaces like my wife’s salon or simple acts of sharing—we demonstrate that generosity and resourcefulness go hand in hand.
Modern life often blurs the line between what we need and what we want, but when we pause to consider the impact of our choices, we rediscover what truly matters. It’s not about grand gestures but about small, consistent actions that reflect care for our planet and the people on it. Think globally, act locally—and remember, you don’t have to save the world in one day. Just make your little corner of it better, one step at a time.
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About the author
Mark Thomas (aka Englez u Dubrovniku) is the editor of The Dubrovnik Times. He was born and educated in the UK and moved to live in Dubrovnik in 1998. He works across a whole range of media, from a daily radio show to TV and in print. Thomas is fluent in Croatian and this column is available in Croatia on the website – Dubrovnik Vjesnik
This year’s 32nd Croatian Theatre Awards were ceremoniously presented last night at the Croatian National Theatre, and the play Equinox, which premiered at the 75th Dubrovnik Summer Festival, won four awards out of seven nominations!
The production Equinox, directed by Krešimir Dolenčić and produced by the 75th Dubrovnik Summer Festival, was named the Best Drama Production. Dolenčić also received the award for Best Direction in Drama for the same play.
The play’s actors, Zrinka Cvitešić, who portrayed Jela, and Goran Višnjić, who played Niko Marinović, took home awards for Best Actress and Best Actor in a Drama, respectively.
The second drama premiere of the 75th Dubrovnik Summer Festival, Equinox by Ivo Vojnović and directed by Krešimir Dolenčić, debuted on July 27, 2024, at a new festival location, the Posat boatyard. Festival audiences were deeply moved by this fresh interpretation of Vojnović’s work, rewarding the entire creative team with standing ovations and prolonged applause.
In addition to director Krešimir Dolenčić, the creative team included composer Stanko Juzbašić, set designer Dinka Jeričević, costume designer Leo Kulaš, lighting designer Tomislav Maglečić, sound designer Đoni Čučević, language consultant Maro Martinović, choreographer Zrinka Japunčić, stage manager Roko Grbin, assistant director Roza Jurić, assistant set designers Marta Dolenčić and Marta Mršić, and sound operator Aljoša Reljić. Musicians featured on the recording were Vid Veljak (cello, voice), Stanko Juzbašić (guitars, trumpet, voice), and Davor Rocco (music recorder).
Dubrovnik will feature on the screens of UK viewers over the festive season. The popular criminal drama “The Good Ship Murder” broadcast on Channel 5 will have a Christmas Special and the backdrop for the story is Dubrovnik.
The Good Ship Murder is crime drama series created by Paul Matthew Thompson and Mike Benson, set on a luxury Mediterranean cruise ship. It follows a retired detective-turned cabaret singer solving murders on board.
In the upcoming Christmas special, the ship’s beloved Santa falls ill, putting the holiday festivities—and the passengers' cheer—at risk.
Desperate to save the day, Bev assigns Jack the task of finding a replacement. His search takes him to Dubrovnik, where he discovers Buddy, a seasoned comedian who appears to be the perfect stand-in.
Is It Worth It? The Temptation of Life Abroad for Croatian Workers
The main reasons for Croatians relocating abroad, according to a recent study, include higher salaries, improved working conditions, and opportunities for professional development. Interestingly, most participants view moving abroad as a temporary decision, with plans to stay for just a few years.
Who’s Ready to Move?
A survey conducted by Alma Career Croatia, known for its MojPosao platform, explored the willingness of workers from Croatia, Bosnia and Herzegovina, Serbia, Slovenia, and North Macedonia to relocate for work. The findings revealed that workers from North Macedonia (55%) and Serbia (54%) are the most open to moving abroad, while those from Slovenia (33%) and Croatia (38%) are more hesitant.
European countries remain the top choice for relocation, with 87% of Croatians preferring destinations inside the region, compared to 66% of Bosnians and 64% of Macedonians. Moving outside Europe is less appealing, with only 21% of Croatians open to this idea—a sentiment shared by workers in Slovenia (22%) and Serbia (21%).
Within the region, Slovenian is the most favored choice for Croatian workers, with 90% selecting Slovenia as their top destination. Other regional options, like Bosnia and Herzegovina (13%) and Serbia (10%), lag far behind.
What Drives the Move?
Across all surveyed countries, higher pay, better living and working conditions, professional growth, and social security were the top motivators for considering relocation. Notably, political stability was a significant factor for workers from Bosnia and Herzegovina, unlike those from other countries.
Temporary or Permanent?
For Croatian workers, relocation is often seen as a temporary move. About 28% would work abroad for less than a year, 18% for 1–3 years, and 19% for 3–5 years. Only 17% are willing to relocate permanently, a much lower percentage compared to Bosnian (50%) and Macedonian (37%) workers.
Industry Preferences and Expectations
While most workers are flexible about the industry they work in abroad, the tourism, hospitality, and IT sectors are particularly attractive. Key expectations from employers include competitive salaries, a supportive work environment, job security, opportunities for professional development, and assistance with the relocation process.
Survey Details
The survey gathered insights from over 6,600 participants across the region, including more than 1,000 from Croatia. Of the Croatian respondents, 70% are employed, 28% are unemployed, and 2% are still in education. Demographically, 75% are women, and 25% are men. The largest age group is 45 and older (37%), followed by those aged 36–45 (31%), and under-35s (23%). Most respondents have a secondary school education (54%), while 33% hold a college degree or higher.
The findings shed light on the factors shaping migration trends in the region, emphasizing the importance of economic and professional opportunities in driving relocation decisions.
Croatians Can Travel to China Visa-Free Starting November 30
China is opening its doors wider than ever, offering visa-free access to Croatians as part of a rapidly expanding initiative to boost tourism and international ties. Beginning November 30, 2024, Croatian citizens can enter China without a visa for stays of up to 30 days, thanks to new measures announced by China’s Foreign Ministry.
Croatia is among eight European nations added to the visa-free list, which also includes Bulgaria, Romania, Malta, Montenegro, North Macedonia, Estonia, and Latvia. This move marks a significant milestone in fostering closer ties between China and Europe. Japan has also been included in the latest wave of visa waivers, further broadening China’s outreach.
The initiative, which extends through December 31, 2025, also enhances travel flexibility for citizens of all 38 countries in China’s visa-free program, increasing the allowed stay from 15 to 30 days.
China’s visa-free expansion comes as part of broader efforts to revitalize its tourism sector and trade amid economic headwinds. Similar arrangements have been offered to South Korea and other European countries in recent months, reflecting a strategic push to attract international visitors.
For Croatian travelers, the new policy presents an exciting opportunity to explore one of the world's most culturally rich and historically significant nations with greater ease. From the Great Wall to bustling metropolises like Shanghai and Beijing, China's vast landscapes and iconic landmarks are now just a passport stamp away.
Terror Fears Force Slovenia to Slam the Brakes on Open Borders with Croatia and Hungary
Slovenia has announced it will extend border controls with Croatia and Hungary for another six months, citing heightened security concerns and the threat of terrorism. The government insists the measures, described as temporary, are necessary to ensure public safety.
Authorities have promised that the additional checks at border crossings will be carried out with minimal disruption to travelers and trade. Despite this assurance, the move is likely to raise eyebrows among neighboring countries and EU officials, given the Schengen area’s principle of free movement. Slovenia plans to notify the European Commission, the European Parliament, and other EU member states about the extension in accordance with Article 27 of the Schengen Borders Code.
Slovenia is not alone in tightening its borders. Austria and Italy have also prolonged controls on their borders with Slovenia, and the Netherlands is set to introduce checks with Belgium and Germany starting December 9. These measures reflect a growing trend within the EU, where several nations have reintroduced internal border controls in response to security threats.
For now, Slovenia insists the move is a necessary precaution, but critics may question whether this is another step towards unraveling the EU’s cherished open-border policy.
Croatia’s Car Market Hits High Gear with 12.6% Growth
Croatia’s car market is shifting up a gear. New passenger car registrations in the country rose by 12.6% in the first 10 months of 2024, reaching 57,181 vehicles, according to provisional data from the European Automobile Manufacturers Association (ACEA).
Petrol-powered cars continue to dominate the roads, accounting for 27,255 of new registrations, but the popularity of hybrid electric vehicles is surging. With 14,998 hybrid electric cars registered—up 33.9% from last year—Croatian drivers are clearly embracing the shift to greener mobility. Diesel cars, while less popular, still saw 10,988 registrations.
Plug-in hybrid models experienced the steepest growth, with a 39.8% spike in registrations, while battery electric vehicle (BEV) sales rose by 17.7% to 1,608 units. Though electric vehicles are still a smaller slice of the market, their steady growth points to a future where Croatia might become a significant player in the EV landscape.
Croatia's car market growth stands out in a broader European context. While the EU’s total new car registrations rose only slightly by 0.7% this year, Croatia has consistently posted double-digit growth, including a 31% surge in 2023 when registrations hit 57,694 vehicles.
With these figures, Croatia is clearly accelerating toward a more dynamic and sustainable automotive future.
Zagreb: Europe’s Best Christmas Market Destination Returns in Full Glory
Move over, Vienna and Strasbourg—Zagreb is the reigning champion of European Christmas markets! For the third year running, this Croatian capital has been crowned the best destination for a festive holiday by European Best Destinations. Travelers from all corners of the globe have spoken, and it’s clear: Advent in Zagreb is a must-see.
This year, the city’s holiday magic spreads further than ever, with new locations and even more activities. Imagine twinkling lights casting a glow over every corner of town, ice skating at the beloved King Tomislav Square rink, indulging in gastronomic delights at food stalls, and enjoying live music, kid-friendly activities, and cultural performances. It’s an experience that embodies the festive spirit and draws hundreds of thousands of visitors each year.
Whether you’re a foodie, a family, or just someone who loves soaking up the holiday vibes, Zagreb has something for everyone. And while you’re here, make sure to stay in one of these top picks:
The Esplanade Hotel: A luxurious choice with a rich history, perfect for those seeking glamour and impeccable service.
Hotel Dubrovnik: Situated in the heart of the city, it’s ideal for travelers who want to be in the middle of the action.
Sheraton Zagreb Hotel: Offering modern comfort and style, this hotel is a great base for exploring Zagreb’s holiday charm.
Zagreb’s Advent has truly become the benchmark for European Christmas markets, rivaling destinations like Edinburgh, Budapest, and Tallinn. So why not make this your most magical holiday season yet?
Croatian Diaspora in Peru Calls for Long-Awaited Embassy in Lima
The Croatian diaspora in Peru, numbering over 230,000 people, according to recent statements by Croatian Minister of Foreign and European Affairs Gordan Grlić-Radman, is calling for the opening of an official Croatian embassy in Lima. This long-standing request highlights the urgent need for a diplomatic mission in Peru, where many Croatian citizens face significant challenges in accessing consular services.
A Long-Standing Call for Representation in Peru
For years, the Croatian community in Peru has advocated for the establishment of a diplomatic mission in Lima. As a nation with a long history of emigration, Croatia is familiar with the challenges of maintaining ties with its global diaspora. However, the absence of a diplomatic mission in Peru means that Croatian citizens living there often must travel to the Croatian Embassy in Chile—a journey that is expensive, time-consuming, and puts them at a disadvantage in accessing consular services and exercising their right to vote.
"I want Croatia to be a community of solidarity for all citizens who may be different but are equal. I want a land of equals," stated Croatian President Zoran Milanović on the official website of the Presidency. This sentiment deeply resonates with the Croatian diaspora in Peru, who feel that their voices have been overlooked for years due to limited access to essential services like consular assistance, voting, and citizenship support.
Strengthening Ties Between Croatia and Its Global Diaspora
While appreciative of the Croatian government's efforts to maintain diplomatic relations worldwide, the community believes the time has come to reprioritize. Opening an embassy in Lima would not only strengthen ties between Croatia and Peru but also provide better representation for Croatian citizens in the region, particularly in neighboring countries like Ecuador, where many members of the diaspora reside.
The establishment of a diplomatic mission in Lima would bring tangible benefits to both Croatia and its diaspora in the Americas. It would grant Croatian citizens in Peru access to consular services without the financial and logistical burdens of traveling to another country. Furthermore, it would enhance Croatia's global standing, reaffirming its commitment to its citizens abroad. As Croatia continues to position itself as a key player on the world stage, stronger ties with its diaspora can only bolster its international presence.
Equal Treatment for All Croatian Citizens, at Home and Abroad
The Croatian community in Peru eagerly anticipates the opening of an embassy, which would address the logistical and emotional challenges they have faced for decades. Looking ahead, they hope Croatian officials, including President Milanović, will prioritize this long-overdue initiative, ensuring that Croatian citizens in Peru receive the same recognition and support as those living in Croatia or elsewhere in the world.
This issue extends beyond merely opening an embassy—it is about ensuring that Croatia’s diaspora remains an integral part of the nation’s future. The community’s call is a poignant reminder that every Croatian citizen, regardless of where they reside, deserves equal treatment and access to the resources and services that enable them to fully participate in the democratic life of their homeland.
Luka Modrić’s contract with Real Madrid is set to expire at the end of this season, and Spanish tabloid Don Balon has reported that the Croatian captain has allegedly discussed his future with Real’s president.
As the end of his contract approaches, Spanish media is increasingly speculating about what lies ahead for Modrić next summer. The Croatian midfielder, who recently turned 39, has yet to make any public statements about his plans. However, Don Balon claims that Modrić has held talks with Florentino Pérez.
The report states: "The Croatian midfielder told Real’s president that this would be his final season at the club and that he plans to retire. Modrić knows how difficult this decision is, but he’s aware that, approaching 40, he wouldn’t get as many opportunities. With his departure, Real Madrid will lose one of its legends, but Pérez has already identified a replacement—Florian Wirtz, whom Real will try to sign from Bayer Leverkusen this summer to fend off interest from Manchester City."
Last week, Modrić was on duty with the Croatian national team, leading them to the UEFA Nations League quarterfinals. With World Cup qualifiers starting in the spring, the captain has not yet decided whether he will lead Croatia into another World Cup campaign.
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